Battle of the Sexes: Do Men take Summers off in Relationships?

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In the Male Corner w/ Andre

"Summer Time On The Courts Got Girls There!" - Will Smith

When it comes to summertime who doesn’t love it?? The Nice weather, the countless things to do, the vacations.....Summertime is the time to Be Free!!!!

With that being said, I don’t believe that men take off Summers when it comes to relationships. I believe that Women confuse the relationships that they are actually in. I know plenty of Men that are in relationships and when summer time comes, they are still in these relationships. I don’t believe that it is fair to say Men find ways to get rid of women and relationships when it gets nice so they can be single and "ready to mingle".

Women if the Guy is not your BOYFRIEND or HUSBAND - Read My Words - YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT PERSON!!

Women are emotional creatures, not all but most. It just seems like Women consider anytime they get close to a Man it’s a relationship. So when a Man is ready to cut it off and move because it was fun while it lasted, Women look at it as being cut off or being dumped.

Just like you feel there is always MAAADDD Men ready to mingle once summer time come, Women do the same thing as well. Women ya’ll have those "Winter Boos" too don’t front LOL!

I think Women need to better analyze the Situations they are in when it comes to Men, and once they do that will they find that Men aren’t taking summers off, but HE WAS NEVER WITH YOU!!

In the Female Corner w/ Empress

Ok – Lets start by re-asking my question: Do guys take summers off IN RELATIONSHIPS? I understand that some females can catch feelings a lot quicker than guys… blah blah blah. But even so – how convenient would it be if the dude that she’s just fucking around with cuts her off as soon as the weather gets warm. Hmmm…

But let’s first clear up some things about the question at hand – RELATIONSHIPS. Maybe I need to hang out with you and your boys, We Ready Ent more often because you paint a picture of all dudes in relationships being angels. Are you just fronting or do you really know these men? Lol. Secondly, when I say take summers off, it doesn’t always mean breaking up but maybe just pulling away a little bit during the warmer months to get some side summer buns.

Observing and being in relationships over the past 15 years, I have collected quite a lot of evidence to totally contradict your stance Dre. I didn’t know it when it was happening but I got insight into this “time off” period when I was just a little Freshman in High School… and then again Sophomore year. How would you explain being dumped on May 7^th one year and May 8^th the very NEXT year… BY THE SAME PERSON!!!!??? And guess when the reconciliation date was between the two breakups: September 26^th. Now beside me being a little crazy for remembering dates in 1994 - lol – was it me or did he just want some space during the summer? Cuz he came right back and did it again the next year.

And you quote Will Smith but the more interesting line in that song is “It’s like the summer’s a natural aphrodisiac.” As I got older, I saw how rocky May to September can be in relationships. Every single one of my female friends had relationship issues this summer and each one of them had a story about a friend with issues. Guys are on the prowl so much harder in those 5 months. Is it because of the skimpy summer outfits? Is it because you can spot a jump-off much quicker when she doesn’t have on a full length snorkel? Maybe – but it’s definitely a proven fact. Because guess what, as sooooooooon as September is over – ya’ll dudes seem to take that ACTRIGHT pill and everything is fine. And even those without girlfriends go searching for a winter cuddle buddy. It’s absolutely ridiculous to me. And like I said before, I have NEVER met a dude that disproved my theory so I challenge you to introduce me to one.